Should I anyway?

Hornyfred

I agree with you Pepper. Good sex requires that each are comfortable with what is going on. Neither should force the other to do what they don't want to do. There are so many things which can be enjoyed between a couple that they should concentrate on and perfect the things they do enjoy. That makes you more eager each time you can come together and be with each other.

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peppercorn

Also, one has to be aware that the passage of time can also change someone's attitudes about sexual things. What a person may not enjoy much in the beginning of a relationship, they actually might be tempted to try again further on in the relationship. Especially with women, as their hormone levels change over time, their interests in different activities may change as well. I know, for me, since I have been on hormone replacement therapy, post-hysterectomy, I have had quite a surge in interest in ALL things sexual. I have had urges to do things I had not even thought much about before, in the past. My desire levels have dramatically increased to the point where I want sex even more often than my husband. So you can see that a person's wants and needs may not always remain the same.

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sailorboy

as long as you and your partner are comfortable with each other and what ever you both want to try, and lots of lube, foreplay, and relaxatin

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