Webcams

lilypad

Do you have a webcam? And... do you use if for video sex? I have watched a couple and am amazed that people feel that comfortable touching themselves in front of people they don't know.

I have never done that part - I don't have a webcam- but would love to try it - but with someone that I have a desire for. Not just someone I met. I think it would be similiar to bad cybering - you know those people with no imagination?

But..... what's it like??

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msounds

Greetings Lily!

I think it has to do quite a bit with being an exhibitionist - or being one - at some level..

Men - for some reason - seem to enjoy that more - to do.

If you are not into the person - I agree - it's really like bad cybering.. actually - worse.

In pure cybering - you exchange ideas.. the mind is very involved - by the words..

Webcam - you only have the images - and sometimes they might not be enough.

Of course - if you have the opportunity - try it with someone you know quite a bit and you have some desires for. You won't need many words there and.. you will probably enjoy each other - a lot!


MS

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silverfox

well lily,i bought one for to be able to see and talk to my family in toronto,but my sister has still to buy one,so it's now uninstalled,and back in it's box,LOL
As for viewing another person,while we both get off.......even if i knew the person very very well,i still don't think i would be comfortable with it,then again,it does sound like a massive turn on,but i would have to think long and hard about it.....to be honest,exciting each other via messenger,with a person you like,love and respect,is by far the better option,but taking it to the stage of webcams.....i am really not sure

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lilypad

I think I would love to give this a try. But... I would be very selective about who with. I'm not one to just flaunt it every where.

Now... I have watched a couple, and they don't usually show their face. I would imagine those are the ones who frequently expose themselves. I would need the entire experience. Can you hear with these things too?

Now that I am giving it more thought - maybe it wouldn't work for me. I need to see the eyes, the face he cums, hear him. And, just watching wouldn't do a thing for me if we couldn't share ideas as well.

Hmmm - I think I have talked myself right out of it. Thanks guys.

MS - have you tried this? Sounds like you are the all around guy -

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shazzy

i have often thought about it,but i dont think i have the bottle.

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