Is it cheating?

Jetboy128

Wow, a psychological analysis of the answer. Your opinion does give a person a lot to think about. I never considered some of things you mentioned. Can't say I fully agree with you, but it was very nice to read the input. I knew from the first day I posted this, that there would be differing opinions, but keep it up. I want to know what everybody thinks.

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rada

I have to agree with Jill. You're getting sexually or virtually-sexually involved with another person that is NOT your partner - it's cheating.

Or how I like to look at it, simply put: if your partner [girlfriend, boyfriend, hubby, wife, etc.] walked in on you and caught you chatting, cybersexing, phone sexing.. whatever, and your reaction is hiding, then - yup - it's cheating. Otherwise, why would you hide it?

C'mon, you know you're doing something wrong - or, well.. not wrong - depending how you look at it - or something your partner would not appreciate - and start questioning if it's cheating.. [I lost my idea right around here LOL]

Greetings,
rada

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DevilishMale4U

Good point, Rada....but, if your S.O. busted in on you with your vibrator, wouldn't your reaction be the same?

there's a fuzzy line here....many men don't feel like masturbating is cheating...when their S.O.s do.

I've never been that good with boundaries....lol

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rada

DevilishMale4U,

In my world [which you know a bit about *grin*] playing with my toys is definitely NOT cheating. It's just.. taking care of the foreplay [maybe?] for him or her :-)

I don't see masturbating as cheating. Hey, if you're hand likes it, I do too! Can I watch? *grin* It is actually a turn on to see someone else masturbating..

Thank you, :-)
rada

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DevilishMale4U

you're verrrry welcum, Rada.

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