Phone sex

SlowHand

Yep ruby, that's the way it works out mostly, but I do it in conjunction of a relationship not just phone sex. And I never ever have called a phone line for phone sex. Phone sex just gets worked into the relationship with all the other elements, so it's not a matter of phone sex or not it's about the relationship.

It's not performing if it's part of a relationship in the first place. So, there is hope for you ruby, keep writing poetry and flirting and who knows it could get exciting! :0)

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Hornyfred

I agree with SlowHand that phone sex is part of an ongoing relationship, particularly with someone
who you enjoy chatting with, and who is not readily available, or who would not indulge in real sex if you
were to meet.

There are a number of reasons why I spend more time in Mindspired, than I do trying to seek out woman for
real sex. Firstly I am not a night club. bar, party person, where most of the contacts are made.
Secondly, In the early days after my divorce, I found that many of the women about my age were
after a man to marry, and I have no intentions of getting married. Thirdly, I am a person who gets stimulated
very easily, and that can be at any time of the day, so chatting and phone sex is usually a quicker way of
satisfying me than having to wait to find a woman for real sex.

For me the attraction is not only the sex talk which stimulates me, but the feeling I get when the other
person likewise gets stimulated, to the point where the fantasy takes over, and the action becomes a reality
for both of us.

If I only wanted to satisfy myself, I would just go in and read an erotic story or two, which I started out doing, but then
found that more pleasure can be obtained in a mutual conversation, centred around each of our sexual wants and desires.

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