First time group sex

lilypad

I have given a great deal of consideration to having a foursome. I wonder though, if it would be much more enjoyable and less awkward later, if it was with a couple that you didn't know. Maybe away on vacation and you happen to meet up and it happens.

On the other hand, I'm not sure I could get past the issue of STDs and such. Any thoughts? Anyone done either - friends or stangers?

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msounds

Greetings Lily,

Both cases have their advantages and disadvantages.

Of course, the stranger element is exciting and can be quite intense.. and has, I think, the potential to be a wonderful experience.

However - the STD factor is a _huge_ risk.

For the friends - hmm - you are probably aware that the relation will be changed - forever - afterwards..

And again - in some cases it might be/feel - awkward - after.

It is not an easy task to accomplish - to make it successful - and, of course, the assumption is that your partner and the other couple are all fine with the idea/etc - correct?


MS

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lilypad

Thank you for your insight and for the confirmation! I still think the excitement and arousal factor will be much higher with strangers.

So MS, what type of personal experience do you have with this? I'm looking for feelings from those that have been involved with group sex. Particularly a foursome but any amount could give me the information I'm looking for.

And.... of course everyone would be alright with it - not like I'd just stand up in front of them, take my clothes off and say ok..... let's fuck. You're too funny!

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kittykat

Well, I have never done group sex before but I have given some thought to it too. I would like to have a foursome, and I have to say that it would depend on the friends you had. Are they open-minded enough to remain friends? How many ohters have they been with? How do you ask them, Hey let's get together for a foursome? lol

And, if you are going to engage in the foursome, then you need to be able to ask them if anyone has ever had/or has any STDs.

But, lily....i would jump at a foursome with you in it!!

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lilypad

I'm almost thinking.... that a twosome with you Kitty - would surely top the foursome - and much less hassle.

Mm - oh! Am I allowed to say that here? It is a group sex type thing - is a two some a group ?

Hmm - kisses kitty softly - thanks!

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