Threesome

hotchick1604

I want to have a threesome but I'm too scared to bring the subject up with my husband... Please help. Who would be the best bet to have a threesome with.. A friend, or someone that you don't really know?

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cabinboy

Ahhhh Hotchick, you need to go and ask Kitty.

However i think if you want to do it, i would gently bring the idea to your husband, he may surprise you.

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kittykat

Well, my ears were ringing! Here I am, CB! lol

I would have to agree with CB, hotchick. I think you need to introduce it, maybe as a hypothetical question and then keep talking about it. And, CB is right...he may surprise you.


As for you other question, well, you might be more comfortable with a friend at first, but then it might get wierd. What if one or the other liked it better with the friend? And, then afterwards, when you all saw each other someplace, things might be awkward. I would probably lean toward someone not known very well. Mostly because you will probably never see that person again.

There are a couple of scenarios. But, you really need to broach it with your hubby. Most guys will surprise you, if you just talk to them. )

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lilypad

I wish you tons of luck on this one hotchick! Kitty is right, you need to talk to your mate first and see where he stands. Hopefully this is something he will open up to. Are you looking to include another woman or man?

I would think it would be easier for a man to allow another woman. I was told that men are much more territorial than women are in this area. Maybe that was just the man I was talking to but there are some men are just opposed to sharing at any level. My hubby would be one of those. I do talk to (not with - since he doesn't like the idea) about a foursome (or if I MUST a threesome to start) and have been doing it for a couple years. I think sharing that experience with him would be SO incredible.

I have also pondered the possibility of friend or stranger. The thought of giving myself to a stranger is a little scary but it also excites me to no end. I just think it would be odd to run into someone you've had group with, especially if you only want this to be a one time thing.

Good luck and I sure hope the talking works. You might be surprised to know he shares the same fantasies!

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lovemaster72

I would say with some one you dont know. That way you can be more relaxed and enjoy]

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