What is Cheating?

Hornyfred · 18th Mar 2010

Pepper, Once again you have put it so clearly and concisely. I could not agree more.

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Originally Posted by peppercorn

Perhaps it is the intention a person has, or the effect they are trying to produce which draws the line between cheating or not cheating. For example, if one intends to inspire another into some action by flirting that would be construed as cheating. The person desires to produce a physical interaction with another. If all that is intended is to gain a bit of harmless attention, and no more, perhaps that is only borderline and not really cheating. I guess I am saying there is a wide swath of interpretation to be made depending upon the people and the situation. If you interact online only, and you know that you will never ever physically interact with that person, your intentions are more for sexual release, ego building, and helping to satisfy an urge that cannot otherwise be satisfied at the moment. We all have a need to interact with others in some way, be it for friendship, self-affirmation, encouragement, etc. Many of us have periods in our lives where our sexual needs are not being fully met, and sometimes, not met at all. When online activities can help relieve the stress put on a good relationship, and even improve it, helping to get past the 'rough spots' we all can experience, I don't feel this can be considered cheating. In this case the online activities can even prevent real cheating and satisfy some urges during a temporarily difficult time.

SlowHand · 18th Mar 2010

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Originally Posted by peppercorn

Perhaps it is the intention a person has, or the effect they are trying to produce which draws the line between cheating or not cheating. For example, if one intends to inspire another into some action by flirting that would be construed as cheating.

So, cheating is an action that would be considered cheating? Define an action by it's self?

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Originally Posted by peppercorn

The person desires to produce a physical interaction with another.

Well, they have miles to go before they sleep!

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Originally Posted by peppercorn

If all that is intended is to gain a bit of harmless attention, and no more, perhaps that is only borderline and not really cheating.

This of course depends on what church you subscribed too! Cheating of course is having an extra card up your sleeve, so eyes for only you, breathe for only you and everything else is cheating, having an unseen card up your sleeve. Then of course there is marking the deck. That's defining your terms by the term its self!

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Originally Posted by peppercorn

I guess I am saying there is a wide swath of interpretation to be made depending upon the people and the situation.

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Originally Posted by peppercorn

If you interact online only, and you know that you will never ever physically interact with that person, your intentions are more for sexual release, ego building, and helping to satisfy an urge that cannot otherwise be satisfied at the moment. We all have a need to interact with others in some way, be it for friendship, self-affirmation, encouragement, etc. Many of us have periods in our lives where our sexual needs are not being fully met, and sometimes, not met at all. When online activities can help relieve the stress put on a good relationship, and even improve it, helping to get past the 'rough spots' we all can experience, I don't feel this can be considered cheating. In this case the online activities can even prevent real cheating and satisfy some urges during a temporarily difficult time.

Of course this is reality, how you feel the ebb and flow of life is is the wide swath like in woman's right to vote. Right to equal pay. Right to have dominion over your own thoughts and body (now we are back to feeling).

Still, true blue, is how you feel. Cheating is how you feel. problem is we want to observe and decide for others according to how we feel. Ah, and what about an unfair advantage border line cheating. We always have some one else deciding what we will know or have access too so we make definitions and rules of exclusion. Not following the rules, whose and morays define cheating and for whom. That becomes the question not what is cheating.

Most people don't cheat they compete because competition is the key to survival. So, we are back to compete by who's rules. There are parts of the world where two or more wives is not unusual. We pear over there and by our standards that's not only cheating it's illegal but then again they aren't in America or American Citizens.

Defining Cheating is like defining hot and cold. The presence of heat energy (presence or absence of motion absolute zero )

But we were talking about cheating everyone knows what cheating is or do they? Motive and achieving physical contact sexually when you aren't married. Interesting define marriage now that becomes the current social question. Of course it's a contract, but lots of things are contracts. Contracts gives you rights and privileges according to law. And of course breaches of contract must be proved except in marriage we have (no fault). Either partner can decide to scrap it. Split the blanket but make sure you pay the lawyer, they won't stand for any cheating.

Cheating is like porn I know what it is when I see it?

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