What are your views?

peppercorn

Here is an interesting look at sex historically as it applies to cultural norms. After reading this article, do you agree, disagree or have something more to add? I would love to hear your thoughts.

"No Sex Please, We're Middle Class"
Op-Ed Contributor - No Sex Please, We?re Middle Class - NYTimes.com

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Dionysius

Pepper, That was a most insightful, and I think accurate piece. There is no question that we are using"no time for sex" as an excuse for "no taste for sex."
Further, I have said it in these very Forums that I do not like the stick model girl but the more voluptuous women like Beyonce, Norma Jean, JLo, Shakira's moves and booty, and Catherine Zeta Jones.
This is a MUST read for men and women today.

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peppercorn

I wonder, with so many complaining they don't get enough 'good sex', why is it so many people seem not to want to bother to put effort into the sex they already have? It doesn't take a whole lot of effort to change passable sex into incredible sex. All it takes is a will to make it happen. Just my thought.

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Hornyfred

From discussions over the years with many men, I believe that they think sex is "wham bang thank-you maam" and for their quck gratification.

God sex is about making love. Finding what turns your partner on and striving to please him/her. One of the most wonderful thing I know, is the look of satisfaction on a ladies face, when she feels that she has just had incredible sex. It is not difficult just needs to be thoughtful,. kind and mindful, that it is a two way process.

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peppercorn

I agree, Fred. I think I get most turned on when I know I am doing wonderful things that please my partner. Watching his reaction is more arousing, even, than when he is doing wonderful things for me. That is what makes a great relationship even better. That unselfish desire to please becomes an end unto itself and provides extra enjoyment for both of the lovers.

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