Re: is she even real? I firmly believe that there is more than one person out there that is "perfect" for us. This person will share many ideas with you and may even think as you do. Some of their interests will be the same as yours, and if you were in a relationship, you would grow to enjoy those interests you never had considered having before--just because your special person enjoys them. People in love will, in time, grow together if there is a good relationship blossoming.
No person should ever give up looking for a special person to share their time with. You may find that person when you least expect it. If you think you have found what you want, give the new relationship time to develop. If you think your affections aren't shared yet, sell yourself and your good attributes to the other person, because the other's feelings may yet grow. Do not give up too soon. Good relationships take time to form and cannot be rushed. And if you have tried everything, and things truly are not progressing, be brave enough to move on. There are other unique, wonderful people waiting to meet you and be wowed. |