Leaving your mark

Gypsy

Would like to see what you mindful think about nibbing, biting and leaveing hickeys.

Do you like to nibble or nibble on?

Do you like feeling teeth gliding across your skin or vise versa?

What your feelings on bitting?

Lastly how do feel about hickey?



This is why I ask. I love nibbling and to be nibble on. And when I first started to date was warn to never come home with a hickey on my body. I was very succeful not to get one in very visable spot. I have kept this record for sometime.

However just recently my husband got a little excited and left hickey in very visable spot. At the moment it felt great!!! After would my first thought was "wow my husband did that" (not sure why lol) However now I feel that I'm bit to old to walk with hickey were everyone know what I've been up to. (thank godness for base and blimish make up)


So mindful what is your thoughts on all of this?

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ravenquill

I love to nibble, not bite. To me a nibble is done with the lips or with "lip covered" teeth. I think bare teeth are a bit "ouchy" for most women unless they're very aroused. To be honest, I'm a little afraid I might hurt my partner if I bite because it's hard to judge the force applied.

My favorite nibbling places are any place that's relatively round with a bit darker skin color and is very taut and stiff. Oh, and other places that can be a bit "stretchy". I also think necks and earlobes are prime nibbling territory, along with inner thighs, and...well, everyplace actually.

I'm not big on teeth and biting where it's being done to me. I suppose I could learn, Gypsy...(hint, hint, hint)

How do I feel about hickeys? Well, if I'd left the hickey you have , I'd feel fantastic about it.

Really, I think they're OK if they're OK with both partners. Sometimes they have meaning, like your title. I could leave a hickey on my partner to leave a visible mark that she's with me, for instance. If I was into BDSM, a hickey might mark her as being my slave. She might leave the same mark on me for the same reason. Then there's the reason that we just really got into the spirit of the moment and didn't realize what was happening until afterward.

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Gypsy

I do sometimes see a hickey as a person claiming or maybe proclaiming would be better to say.That's kinda why I gave this thread the title it has.

It's quite rare that my husband get into the nibble or biteing mood.For the most part it when he feeling a bit agressive and excited.(which I don't mind)And there been times I had to say "hey, don't bite so hard." However if he nibbles on me I don't complain.lolExpeceslly my neck.(OMG lol) I like to add that it's very rare that he the any maks.

So the other day we got to "celebrate" his birthday by ourself and he was very "thankful" his gift.

Now the other thing I would to say is I that I was have always thought of nibbleing as teeth softly grazing the skin.

Lastly I never thought of the BDSM aspect in leaving mark as a way of saying this slave is mine. I seen the callor as being a statment of onwership to the Dom whether it be male or female.And if in group setting a leash being attachted to the collar.


So there things I learn here and somethings to think about as well.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this Ravenquill.

(Oh,Ravenquill anytime you want to feel some teeth aginst your skin just drop me a line ...or if you feel like leave a mark... or vise versa.)

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