Foreplay forensics

ravenquill

Every self-help sex manual stresses the importance of foreplay in any sexual relationship with lots of concentration on cuddling, kissing, and sensuous touches. In every porn movie, foreplay consists of a single touch to various parts of anatomy, some of what are not normally considered erogenous zones, or even the sight of a silicone enhanced boob being stroked by its owner. Reality probably falls somewhere in between.

1. How important is foreplay to you?

2. Is it more fun to be seduced (or do the seducing) or to be "taken" (or do the taking)? Either gender can do either, by the way.

3. Do you have foreplay fantasies you feel comfortable about sharing? A few that come to mind are , the stripper and the watcher, the wood nymph and the satyr, The unexpected guest who discovers you asleep...

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peppercorn

1. How important is foreplay to you? Foreplay has always been enjoyable for me. Not only is it exciting when a partner wants to spend time making you feel wanted and lovely, but you get to return the favor and make him feel special too. Years ago I required longer amounts of foreplay to be ready for intercourse, but these days I seem more aroused and excited, and it doesn't take much -- either given by him or given by me to get me to be ready for sex. There have even been a few times where I wanted to just get right to it and not worry about the foreplay, but those times are not very often.

2. Is it more fun to be seduced (or do the seducing) or to be "taken" (or do the taking)? Either gender can do either, by the way.
It depends on my mood, but I usually prefer to be seduced.

3. Do you have foreplay fantasies you feel comfortable about sharing? A few that come to mind are , the stripper and the watcher, the wood nymph and the satyr, The unexpected guest who discovers you asleep...
I love to be tied down and erotically tickled and caressed for long periods of time.

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Gypsy

1. How important is foreplay to you? I do love foreplay... but not always necessary and my husband dosen't really like to recieve forplay

2. Is it more fun to be seduced (or do the seducing) or to be "taken" (or do the taking)? Either gender can do either, by the way. I love being seduce and taken ...oh what fun would it be if could "take" my husband but its not something he would like.However he doesn't mind being seduce sometimes.

3. Do you have foreplay fantasies you feel comfortable about sharing? A few that come to mind are , the stripper and the watcher, the wood nymph and the satyr, The unexpected guest who discovers you asleep...

I do have the fantasy of being restrained and also restraining my husband. He was kind and let these fantasy be fulled, however he didn't really care for retraining me. and hated to be restrained ...

Of course there are other fantasies, which I'm considering writting in some stories.

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Hornyfred

To me foreplay is an essential. Having sex should not be a "wham, bang, thank you mam " experience. I did that when I was a teenager.

I want it to last a minimum of an hour, so playing with every part of the ladies body, while she plays with me, is a prerequisite.
to more enjoyable sex.

I find that the longer the foreplay, usually the better the orgasm on both sides, as you are well and truly ready to cum. Talking about what you are both enjoying also helps to heighten the experience.

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peppercorn

My husband and I once helped a female friend discover she was very orgasmic when she thought she was not. Through some fun foreplay interactions and some relaxing encounters, she found that she could achieve orgasm where she never could before. Caring and relaxed foreplay, when done with the pleasure of the receiver in mind can produce amazing and satisfying results.

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