On Perving

Hornyfred

I don’t usually go to the shopping centre on Saturdays, but because I did not have time during the week, I had to go to get the weeks supply of meat, fruit & veg.

After nearly emptying my wallet, and needing to recover from the ordeal, I decided to sit down in the very pleasant outdoor area and have a cup of coffee.

I was a amazed at the numbers of young women (under 30) who were there shopping as I was. The array of boobs, bottoms. thighs and legs had me enthralled for a good half hour.

Now although I was stirred by this attractive array of young women, at no time was I inclined to open my pants and masturbate, nor did I feel any urge to grab one them and engage her in sexual intercourse, although I was aware that I would enjoy doing just that with any one of them.

Yes I was just perving, and thoroughly enjoying it. Now many of puritanical mind would say that I was committing a grave sin or social indecency, and in perving I was just a dirty old man. (At 51 I do not consider myself that old.)

So I ask the following questions:

Is perving just another sexual activity to be enjoyed, albeit on your own, like masturbation?

Do women in fact actually enjoy having their bodies admired?

Do women in fact perv on men?

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peppercorn

I guess it all depends upon one's perspective. You can sit and watch people go by while at the mall. Who is to say what you are thinking about as you watch. One could just say you are admiring the view. You could be imagining the people as characters in your next story. You could be an artist studying the features of different people for a later sketch. And, yes, you can be thinking about them sexually. That is fine too.
Since you are not acting upon your thoughts, what harm is there? There are many women who dress in tight, low-cut, or otherwise provocative clothing in order to attract glances. Sometimes they may want even more than glances. Other women will not appreciate you looking. Then there are those in between, who may not be outwardly looking for your appreciation, but will smile, nonetheless, when receiving your glance their way.
It is healthy to look at what attracts you, no matter what sex. I have looked at both good-looking men and occasionally at a well-shaped female. I don't go out of my way to watch, but I WILL notice, and that is fine. I encourage my husband to 'look', and he will often point out to me some shapely female we are passing. I will usually agree that his tastes are wonderful and I don't mind that he looks.
SO LOOK AND ENJOY!

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