Does size really matter?

Shy

Amen Pepper !!! I totally agree *smile* and I admit I have worried about some of those things , but I promise in the future I promise to just relax , not worry , and enjoy *smile*

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greedyandneedy

Wow... it's all got a bit Jerry Springer in here all of a sudden.

Pepper's right I guess, size doesn't and shouldn't matter, but I must admit, I have certain categories outside of which I don't tend to stray. Esthetically, I like short women with curves and bigger boobs. I just don't really find overly skinny women as attractive, for example.

BUT I completely accept and agree that a woman's height, breast size or hair colour has NOTHING to do with how good she is in bed, how fun she is and how good at giving pleasure she is. It's a shame that all of that gets tied up in sex. I can think of several occasions when I've slept with women who I found very attractive, to find that they were normally quite self-centred, boring and seemed to belief that simply looking at them naked should be enough for me.

On the other hand, women with less arrogance and who aren't obsessed with their image are always so much more satisfying, so much more enjoyable and infinitely more relaxed and adventurous... less 'look at me' and more 'let's get it on!', if you see my point.

Still... I can't get away from the fact that a woman who has made an effort to stay at least slightly in shape and who fulfills my certain size categories, even very approximately, will have a greater initial sexual attraction for me... I think that is phsyical, human and pretty instinctive... just not something to get too hooked up on.

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