Role Playing

lilypad

I'm not looking to swap roles, but I think it would be such a fun mix to play out some of the scenarios written in some of the stories.
My hubby doesn't know how to relax in a situation like this, and unless I wrote a script for him to memorize, he wouldn't be that quick with dialogue either. How do you think I can help him get more comfortable with this?

I want the experience to be fun and sexually pleasurable for us both.

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msounds

Good morning Lily,

How about letting him read the text - fully - then read it again - fully - and again.. just to get the idea.. and understand his.. 'character' - and then maybe scroll the text on the computer screen or TV at a very low speed? So that he can have time to play it out.. ?

Or - maybe - you can create excerpts from the story - general guidelines - after he has read the details? And.. see how that goes?

Probably trial and error should do the trick - personally - that's what I would do.

[yes, fine - I do trial and error - extensively - more error lately - for reasons which are.. funny! - beyond. Well, partially funny - you must admit].


Here,
MSounds

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lilypad

Thanks for the advice MS - we'll need to try something a bit more simple or he'll think he's expected to read and play out - word for word. I want it to be a pleasant experience for both of us.

I can clearly see the story where I breakdown and come to the house for help. We did try this one in the past... and maybe it was my expectations from the story.. but it didn't work out well. I do have another scenario in my mind... that I had been meaning to write about.. but thought I would try it out first... then write about it. Well.. after the first disaster... he didn't want to.

Yes.. I do know about trial and error too... And although amusing, it does create some distance to the act itself. I want him to be comfortable - completely.

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msounds

Good morning Lily,

Of course - only pleasant - and.. always.

Hmm.

Then dry to make a one-paragraph kind of resume from each story - just to see how it goes?

Hmm.

It would be lots of fun to try and error - other scenarios - who knows.. maybe you would come up with new stories! [from a similar start but.. turning out into completely different areas.. how would you like that??]

Ahh - if he is not willing to - and he needs directions.. that much.. hmm - let me know - I am sure I can find YOUR _perfect_ man..

[no, I am not talking about you, Kate - not yet - not now! *smile*]


Here,
MSounds

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lilypad

MMMMMM - visions of Kate! Now - that's perfect! And.. Kate with a strap on... that's just a fantasy - FOR NOW!

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